One evening in early April I was waiting for my ten-year-old twin granddaughters to finish their indoor soccer practice when a girl their age approached me and said, “Your coat looks really nice.”
It was a wet, chilly evening, and I was wearing a London Fog given me thirty years ago by an elderly widow whose deceased husband no longer had to fret about the rain or the cold.
Though I thanked the girl, her comment took me aback. Then I looked at the other adults milling around me, and thought, as I often think nowadays, that all of them were dressed like…well, like slobs. Several were wearing sweat pants and hoodies, others ragged trousers and rumpled sweaters. One woman, a thirty-something mom, wore designer jeans torn artfully at the knees.
Several people have from time to time complimented me on my attire. One man, age fifty or so, once told me I dressed like an adult, a remark that struck me then and strikes me now as ludicrous. I typically wear a pair of khaki pants, casual shoes, and a shirt with a button-down collar. To be complimented on such mundane clothing is not only silly, it also reveals how low our standards have fallen.
Go to any public arena—a sports event, a shopping mall, Wal-Mart, you name it—and you realize the standard of dress for men and women, adults and children, has reached a low point in American history. Blue jeans are de rigueur; t-shirts with slogans, some of them billboards of obscenity, assault the eyes; pajama bottoms are worn to the grocery store; restaurant patrons appear at lunch looking as if they had just rolled out of the sack; grown men wear baseball caps while eating steaks at Outback.
Let’s contrast our contemporary “style” with the recent past. Go online, Google “baseball games 1930s photos,” and look at the pictures of the fans. Most are males wearing ties and coats. The women are wearing dresses and hats. Take a look at television shows from the 1950s or at “Mad Men,” and note how stylish people dressed when in public.
When I was a boy, I remember my mother once telling me she couldn’t go to the store until she took the curlers from her hair. “Why?” I asked.
“Good heavens,” she said, “no one in town goes shopping with their hair in curlers.”
Those days are long gone, Mom.
Of course, lots of folks still spiff up for work. The tellers in my bank always look professional, some attorneys I know hit the office in a coat and tie, and the male teachers in my grandson’s school wear ties in the classroom. Yesterday I saw a woman, mid-twenties, walking down the street in a lovely black dress. Though her looks were not remarkable, she was striking because of the dress. She is also the exception rather than the rule. A good number of people I see during the day, of all backgrounds, run the gamut in attire from hooker to beggar.
What does our own sloppy dress tell us about ourselves? Are we too pressed for time to dress a little up rather than way down? Are we rebelling against the idea of beauty and culture? Or are we just too lazy to pull on a pair of slacks instead of wearing the sweats we slept in?
I have no idea.
Recently I was watching Casablanca with two of my granddaughters. One of them suddenly turned to me and said, “Why was everyone so dressed up back then?”
“People used to dress that way. They did every day. We just don’t do it anymore.”
“You do,” my granddaughter said.
I burst out laughing. My granddaughter gave me a puzzled look, then returned to the movie.
Oscar Wilde once said, “You can never be overdressed or overeducated.” No one would ever consider me overdressed—or overeducated, for that matter—but if I am now regarded as well-dressed, a man representing haute couture, then I can draw only one conclusion.
We are a nation of slobs.
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8 Comments
Greg Saunders
June 20, 2022, 6:33 pmHear, hear.
I don’t get overly dressed to go out for casual dining and am not the least bit pretentious…but I am shocked by others around me, I dress better than that to change the oil in my car.
Show some class, and more importantly, show some respect for the people that you interact with while out in public.
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REPLYDon Green
July 13, 2022, 5:05 amWe (many..MOST) seem to have become lazy, overweight and nonchalant in today’s society. I grew up lower middle class but my parents would never allow me out of the house with ripped pants of any kind. It’s the way we were raised and that’s who is to blame for the people of today. If the attire wasn’t bad enough, try talking to someone. People sound so uneducated and crude. The dumbing down of America has come to fruition.
REPLYSteve@Don Green
August 9, 2022, 11:37 pmYes and that’s putting it mildly. The author didn’t mention the hideous tattooing that people subject themselves to in our confused times. Nor did he realize that America has a fascination with pursuing ugliness, which we strangely believe is our right. Regardless, the standards are nil, and the debasement of the american empire continues as long as all of the masses can be fooled most of the time.
REPLYEd L.
October 11, 2022, 12:33 pmAn acquaintance of mine, a former co-worker, showed up one day at my then place of employment for a job interview — wearing sweatpants. That is all.
REPLYSteve
April 15, 2024, 12:32 amThere's more options than a suit-n-tie and dirty Spongebob pajamas.
I think people have come to value their limited time on this Earth and don't want to waste it wearing clumsy, high-maintenance, grossly uncomfortable clothing. The only argument in its favor is the vapid "it's professional" argument which is boomer-speak for "because that's why". Men in jeans built this country while men in suits have given us 30+ trillion in debt, a dysfunctional government, a broken banking system, and corporations that focus on DEI instead of profir. If anything, the cumbersome suit can be shown to be the uniform of the unprofessional: a superficial mask to hide incompetence.
Plus one of the most amusing aspects of "dressing up" is that little looks as sloppy as a white dress shirt. From the transparent fabric that requires (and displays) an undershirt, the puffy arms, the tight wrists, and mesh of clashing horizontal and vertical folds at the waist and wrists, guys look like an utter slob in a dress shirt. Add the obligatory obesity and muffin top fat roll protruding over the collar squeezed by an utterly useless tie and you have the stereotypical boomer middle manager ready to "inspire" his cubicle staff with the latest corporate mission statement.
Ultimately the proponents of "dressing up" often demonstrate the same MCS (Main Character Syndrome) displayed by narcissistic Zoomers with their vanity pronouns. They expect the world to be the background characters in their lives with the sole purpose of affirming their preferences.
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